What should we value in other people

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When was the last time you told her? What you notice first about a person does matter, depending on what you look for first. If you first notice ones personality, then that is very important. Though, sometimes you have to look even deeper than someones personality.

Before you should really decide if you like a person or not, you should get to know their personality; find out who they really are. Basing someones personality on how they look could give you the wrong impression of how they really are. You may be right, but get to know someone first. First impressions may be important, but it is the future impressions that make other people see who you really are inside.

I believe that we should value who people really are and accept them for being their own individual self.

I do not think its fair to judge people on the value of appearances. I understand that it is hard for people not to judge one another on their physical appearance, but I blame this completely on our society and what it has become. In the society we are living in, everyone is expected to be and look "perfect" thanks to the continuous media pressures, social networking, celebrities, and pressures from our very own peers.

I however, do not think this is right. I think we should value one another on being themselves and expressing their own personality. In my opinion, I think the most important qualities in someone is that they are a nice and genuine person. Other important qualities include honesty, being respectful, true, and friendly to everyone. I find one of the worst qualities in people is when they try to be or act like someone they are not.

When I first meet someone, the first thing I normally notice is the facial expressions they give. If people look happy and smile while I first start to meet them, then I usually feel like they will be a truly genuine person.

On the other hand, if people don't show expression or give rude looks, then people tend to get the feeling that they are not interested and seem rude. I definitely feel that showing certain facial expressions when first meeting someone is important because it is what lets the person know what kind of person you seem to be.

I don't think its right to judge people on first impressions; however, most people do naturally, so you might as well try to make it seem like you care and are interested when first meeting others. Also, Kelsey makes a good point when discussing first impressions. We should not judge people based on only what we first see, but some many of us do anyway.

So as Kelsey says, we should try to make a good first impression with positive body and facial language. I think that everyone should value and appreciate someone being themselves. People should not be afraid to let everyone know who they really are inside even if they are not perfect on the outside in some peoples eyes.

Not everyone takes the time to get to know someone on the inside based on what they look like on the outside.

People should value who someone really is. Important qualities of a person, which we should also value, are being kind and respectful. If a person is rude and does not care about you at all, then most people would probably want to avoid them unless they act the same way. No one likes being disrespected. When I first meet someone, i usually notice how they act and what they say to greet meet. Overall, the qualities we should value most in a person are being kind, respectful, and being yourself around anyone.

Being true to yourself is the best quality anyone could have. I completely agree with everything Sara just had to say above. When she says "Not everyone takes the time to get to know someone on the inside based on what they look like on the outside. What I mean when I say by the way our generation runs is that more people now don't take the time to get to really know people for who they are, instead they judge characters on appearances.

Sara also makes a great point when she talks about how if people come off as "rude" then others will most likely not want to be around them in general at anytime.

Overall, she makes a great points and it shows that the only really right thing you can do is to be yourself. There is a large difference between what we should value in people, and what people do value. Prejudice is extremely common in today's society. People don't give others the chance to show them their personality before deciding whether or not they wish to be around them. This being said, the majority of people only look at the physical characteristics of a person before forming their opinion.

Everything that people look for in each other is subjective. Different people look for different qualities based on what they believe is important in a person. There is no set characteristic we should value, as every person is unique and has a preference in what they value in someone. Personally, I look first at physical characteristics.

Hair is the first thing I take notice of. It tells me right off the bat if they take time to care for themselves. However, after I take notice of physical characteristics, I prefer to get to know someone.

Until you actually meet and get to know them, appearance is all you have to go off of. I think that Ty brought up a good point. Prejudice is parlously common in society nowadays. Although prejudice always has been a problem, it is worse now more than ever.

It is so simple to judge people on their physical appearance. It happens instinctively. When we see someone not particularly attractive, our brain tends to trigger the amygdala and the insula. The amygdala is an information processor and has an important role in unconscious memory. It also is triggered when the brain senses fear to some extent. In a way the insula performs a similar function. Many emotions activate the insular cortex. Our brain is able to decide whether or not someone is attractive almost instantly, but it is how we interpret that information that we receive from our brain that determines future impulses which will then determine your personality.

If you really try you can train your mind to not look for the physical attributes of others, but to dig deeper and find the good that is inside of them. What should we value in other people? Good question. Everyone has a different personality. What qualities are important in a person? The most important qualities in a person are the qualities that help make the world a better place. Qualities such as being trustworthy, kind, caring, hardworking, compassionate, respectful, genuine, responsible, selfless, et cetera, are, in my opinion, some of the important qualities that a person can have.

Sure, of course people may have more negative qualities, such as being greedy, selfish, a liar, a cheater Then, there are the qualities of a person that are placed in the middle of this quality scale. Take the quality of being funny, for example. The more positive qualities are the more important ones because they contain a greater value. What do you usually notice first about someone?

I notice a persons looks before all else. Are they attractive? What color hair do they have? Once I start talking to somebody is when I start to notice their personality. Are they nice? Are they funny? Are they a little too cocky for their own good? I notice these types of things next.

Does that matter or not? People are more likely to talk to and be friends with people they find attractive, rather than people they find unattractive. People are attracted to people who are attractive. Yes, that has a small amount to do with my friend-making, but ninety-nine percent of the reason I choose to be friends with someone is because of their personality.

I believe that it is important to value people for who they are and what they believe in. Everyone is unique and special in their own way, and if we do not value them for it, then they might try to change who they are. Never change who you are, just be yourself. Some specific qualities that I personally value in other people are honesty and empathy. Honesty is so important to everything. Without trust, there is nothing.

I really admire empathetic people who show compassion. Being able to understand how other people are feeling and why they feel they way they do is one thing. Being able to act upon these realizations is another thing.

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